Blog 30: Are you grieving the life you desire?


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Are you constantly thinking about your dream life style? Wanting it so much you’re going to burst? Yet thinking at the same time (It’ll never happen)?

Go get a pen a paper, we are going to make that dream a reality.

Write a list of everything you desire in life! What are your dreams? Where do you want to live? Is there a holiday you’d love to go but it’s very expensive? Maybe it’s a dream job or you want to be financially free!

Now… I want you to write very small goals on how you are going to achieve this. Break it down very very small.

✨ A little book content below FREE ✨

It’s tough to get anything done when life gets in the way TELL ME ABOUT IT - ARE YOU TIRED AFTER WORK TOO?! Truth is, we all are... But guess what? Making tiny steps each day allows you to do great things and achieve your goals. Guess what? I finished writing my book! And now I get to help you to let your sparkle shine and break free from depression, anxiety and stress! I have now achieved my goal and I have done amazingly even though it took me 4 years! You heard right! 4 years!

Could I have completed writing and editing my own book in a few weeks? Yes, but that’s not reality. Life throws all sorts at us and we have to try on those little days or hours we have spare. It's never too late to start! You are tougher than you think.

Things take time, I know we want something so bad instantly, but in reality That’s not how it works. You have to master something over many years or you have to save over a lot of years if you want to buy something expensive and that takes time, determination and effort.

We cannot achieve anything lying in bed staring at our screens. Don’t give up on your dream. DON’T!

Your dream life is out there waiting for you. Get up and reach for the stars! Having mental health makes it so much harder to get things done I know, it’s like it’s freezing you in place right? Like you can’t do anything until that thing happens, but you need to make yourself do the things. You will thank me for it when you do. It’ll be hard but when you achieve your goals, oh how much happier you will be!

Stop grieving the life you could have and start making plans how you’re going to get there. YOU can achieve so much great things and I just thought you needed this little push and reminder, you forgot didn’t you?!

✨ YOU CAN DO THIS ✨

Don’t give up!

✨ I wish you all the best on this big journey ahead and I hope we all make our dreams a reality!

Rachel Spooner 🫶🏻